I agree with Tori on the 2 of the 3. However, I don't agree with the poor upbringing. That can be changed by making a choice not to continue that path.

The second part to the question is I have a hard time with people that are willing to at least try and help themselves.

1. A parent who fondles his 4-year-old child. I think that is totally wrong. 2. A parent who won’t leave the man who physically abuses her in front of her children 3. A parent who won’t leave the man who physically abuses her in front of her children 2 and 3 because they can be fixed by the person it is happening to.

I would say it would be a red level. The level of stress may make them feel like they had to always be on the attack or being defensive. Understanding the problem is the first step in solving it.

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